I know you are the buyer and I know everyone says it’s a buyers market, but there is still some real estate etiquette that you need to keep in mind. The other day I was out on a call to see a house that Mr. Seller has had on the market with another agent. The other agent had not produced a buyer so Mr. Seller had terminated the listing and is running ads in the paper himself. He had a prospecive buyer that had come out to see the house and Mr. and Mrs. Buyer just loved everything about the house and made arrangements to get back in touch with Mr. Seller.
They left and Mr. Seller and I got down to the business at hand (another property) . While we were talking, he received a phone call. I could not help overhearing the conversation, so I listened. Mr. Buyer was calling to see if Mr. Seller would take $$$ for the property and they could close next week. The $$$ offer was $40,000 under asking price! Mr. Seller was INSULTED! And he told him NO! This situation could have been a negotiable deal if Mr. Buyer had not insulted Mr. Seller. But if didn’t work out that way. Keep in mind that the sellers of property are people, too. They are selling to get what the property is worth. If you insult them, they won’t even talk to you. If the offer had been $20,000 under, Mr. Seller would have thought they might possible be able to meet in the middle. But to be that far under……..there would be no meeting of the minds. So have some respect for the sellers or they won’t sell to you!